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Sometimes, the signs that someone is taking advantage of a relationship are obvious. Other times, they are subtle enough that a woman may dismiss them, especially when she has strong feelings for the person involved.

For example, a man who repeatedly “forgets” his wallet on dates he specifically asked her to go on may be showing a pattern rather than making an innocent mistake. If she is constantly paying for meals, driving him around, or helping him financially while he rarely returns the favor, it may be worth taking a closer look at the relationship.

Another warning sign is when he seems interested only when he wants something. He may disappear for days, then suddenly become affectionate when he needs money, favors, attention, or emotional support.

Here are nine behaviors that may suggest a man is taking advantage of a woman:

1. **He expects her to pay for everything.**
2. **He contacts her mainly when he needs something.**
3. **He rarely makes an effort to help her in return.**
4. **He avoids meaningful conversations about the future.**
5. **He becomes affectionate when he wants a favor.**
6. **He ignores her needs but expects her to prioritize his.**
7. **He frequently makes excuses when she needs support.**
8. **He pressures her to give more than she is comfortable giving.**
9. **He makes her feel guilty when she sets reasonable boundaries.**

One isolated incident does not necessarily mean someone is using you. People can have bad days, financial difficulties, or different expectations in relationships.

The bigger issue is the **pattern**.

Healthy relationships involve mutual respect, communication, effort, and consideration. If one person consistently gives while the other primarily takes, it may be time to step back and ask whether the relationship is genuinely balanced.

Recognizing the signs early can help someone protect their time, energy, finances, and—most importantly—their self-respect.