Weddings are expensive, and guest lists often need to be limited—sometimes due to budget, other times due to circumstances, like the pandemic.

In 2020, one bride had to make tough choices for her wedding amid COVID restrictions. She even called her sickly uncle to explain why he couldn’t attend, and he understood.

Then came Aunt Edith. Unlike her uncle, she wasn’t understanding. When she received her invitation—without her boyfriend Danny’s name—she didn’t just RSVP. She angrily wrote notes all over it, called it rude, and added Danny’s name herself before sending it back.

People on Reddit were quick to criticize Aunt Edith, offering plenty of not-so-kind advice on handling the situation.